OUCH!

Can you believe that Tyler and Cera are going to be 3 years old next week?! Time is flying and yet feels so often it is standing still. Carter is standing on his own and still smiling from ear to ear! I got home last night and Beth was still trying to get Cera and Tyler to sleep. When This is the case I usually come in and give the kids a hug and kiss and either take over from Beth, or she stays and I unwind from work. Well....I get home and come into their bedroom and Cera cuddles up to me and says "Daddy, Tyler pushed me." Beth said "Your daughter's birthday is ruined, go look at her cheek." Apperantly she and Tyler were standing on the table and Tyler pushed her off. She hit her cheek on the side of our microwave hutch on the way down and has a pretty blue line accross her cheeck now. Now, instead of walking around saying "I just sick" (she's been sick and reminding us), she says "Tyler just pushed me." (if you haven't noticed a trend everything is "just") Well....tomorrow is their birthday party! It should be fun. Well be attending church in the morning. It should be an exciting day! Those familiar with the Rockford State, the Sycamore Ward is spliting, the announcement was made last week and appearantly they are doing during sacrament tomorrow! Don't know where we'll end up, but we're excited!

I've been working crazy hours at work because we've been down several people for the last couple of weeks. I think I'm working on 55 or 60 hours this week so far! Needless to say...I've been pretty tired. But we have been able to get out as a family and enjoy some time together. Well...I'll try to keep this more up to date and interesting, keep in touch!

Family Update

Hello all! Things are going generally well and busy as ever. I'm taking 2 online courses again this fall and am officially a "post grad" student. I have been accepted into the graduate school, but have not worked into a gradute program. One of the classes I'm taking this fall (A Homeland Security and Disaster Preparedness class) is a graduate course. The other (A managing financial resourse for health and human sciences course) is an undergrad class. To be bluntly honest...just taking them because they are online which is easier for me. I'm still trying to decide if I want to take the plunge into the MFT (Marriage and Family Therapy) program here at NIU. I recently started a new shift at work, which meant Beth cut down on the hours she is working. She is also in the process of trying to start a scrapbooking paper business. (Those interested in this check out www.darlinglittlescraps.com. It is still under some construction though.) The kids are loads of fun and as rambunchous as ever. Tyler and Cera will be 3 next month, and Carter just turned 7 mo. old! WOW! Time flies! Tyler and Cera are potty training. Tyler started a bit earlier, Cera seems to have it down pretty good, not even sleeping with a diaper anymore. Carter is pulling himself up to any and everything he can, and is getting pretty close to walking along furniture. He also has some teeth stubbs starting to sprout on his lower gums, kinda been fussy last couple of days because of it, which if you know Carter...is not his character. Great Aunt Chrylnn is amazed because during church she usually has him and she says he goes from gooing and gaaing and being active, to quite for a minute or two and rubbing his eyes, then he's out. He is usually a very very happy and unfussy, if you will, baby. The Denton Clan is getting together this weekend for Steve and Utahnas' Bdays. Looking forward to that as I haven't seen everyone for a while. I've had a really fun time lately on www.bebo.com. Found a couple of mission companions and friends on there! It's always good to hear from someone either down there or from there. Only been 1 year since I got back and I'm already getting the itch to go back down there....said this last time, but I don't expect I will be able to go back anytime soon. I was extremely lucky and blessed to have been back twice since I got home from my mission! Well...keep in touch and here are some pics of the cutest family in the world, no offence to yours.

Before Cera's first haircut...

And singing the receipt after her first haircut...

This is what I deal with!....NO KIDDING!!!

I love what people consider an emergency...or better yet...what constitute a reason to call 911. My favorite is the response that the majority of people I talk with on 911 give. I answer 911 as "911 where's your emergency?" No kidding....at least 50% of the callers respond, "Oh, this isnt an emergency, but..." this is usually followed by a request or statement not too often unlike the ones in this clip....gotta love idiots!

Check out this video: Funniest 911 calls compilation:)



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Weekend and Jed's wedding

Hello everyone! Well, we had a nice fun little weekend. Beth's parents watched the kids and Beth and I went to a good friends (Jed and Jamie's) wedding. The wedding was in Chicago at the Adler Planetarium, right on the the lake. Although, thanks to Mapquest, we ended up being about 15 min late; It was a beautiful wedding and the rain held out until just as the were walking down the isle to leave. The ceremony was outside facing the lake, then the reception was inside the planetarium. It was a nice evening of catching up and seeing friends! Beth and I stayed in a suburban hotel after the wedding and then went to go see Harry Potter at an IMAX! It was pretty good, and even had the fight scene in 3-D! (On a side note, we both have finished reading HP 7 as well...just FYI.) I hope to add some up to date pictures of the fam on here soon. Carter had his 6 month Dr. apt today... 17 lbs even and 26.5 inches (or there abouts...I dont remember for sure). He is becoming a very good army crawler and I would expect that he will be up and full crawling any day now. We are trying to get Cera and Tyler potty trained....umph....ya. I won't say much about it right now, but Beth and I are possibly looking into starting a business in the scrapbook industry....don't know the full details yet, but are in the beginning stages of planning...We'll let everyone know about it as it develops a little more. School starts soon again, so I'll be busy. Anywho, hope everyone is doing well and staying healthy. I'd love to hear from any of you, especially if I haven't in a while...so drop me a note www.ulavale1@hotmail.com . Keep in touch and take care!


- Ulavale1

Transformers and update

Well....Last night my brother and I, on whim, went to go see Transformers. I thought it was pretty good! Shia LaBeouf, who plays Sam in the movie, along with his "guardian" Bumble-Bee really made the movie, I think. The special effects were great, although Steve and I agreed that some of the transformation scenes were too fast and too close up, it seemed all you really saw was metal flashing before you, not really the "transformation". I think the movie did a pretty good job at bringing inanimate objects to life. I certainly will not look at my car the same after watching Transformers. ;-).
On another note. I often call Cera my "baby girl" and lately I have started asking her "Are you my baby girl" and she usually nods her head and says "Yesssssss." Tyler's newest thing is he'll grab your hand and say "common daddy, common" when he wants you to go play cars, or trains or whatever with you, or go somewhere. Carter is getting stronger than ever, I fear it will not be too long before he's crawling. He already will push himself up on his hands and, in effect, crawl backwards. He is still one of the happiest babies I've ever met, as he constantly smiles and goos. You gotta love kids...and I do mine. Things have been busy with us as I have worked quite a bit of overtime the last 3 weeks or so, and Beth started a part-time job as well, but We are doing well and enjoying life and our family. Beth and I are looking forward still to seeing Harry Potter when neither of us have to work and we can find an available baby sitter. And Harry Potter 7 comes out Saturday.....so.... somehow in our schedule we'll have to find time to read that too! Priorities, you know! ;-)

Movie Ramblings

Well....Sometime in the near future I hope to find an opportunity to go see Transformers and Harry Potter 5. Beth and I are looking forward to the last Harry Potter book coming out next week. It's nice it is coming out over the summer, I may be able to find some time at work to read. Life is going pretty good for us right now. We're busy as ever, and I'm sure I don't see it letting up anytime soon. In fact, I would assume with the kids getting older, the opportunity for extra curricular's will grow, which will only add to the busy schedule. Tyler and Cera have a cousin (Beth's sister's son who is about their age) over this weekend so they are all having fun, including Beth who gets to watch them all (and Carter) while I'm at work. I get to watch them all by myself Monday until I have to go to work. Three 2 year old's and a 6 month old....If you don't hear from me by Wednesday, send reinforcements ;-).

4th of July

Well....the 4th didn't go quite as we planned. I was asked to come into work on my day off to cover for someone else. I was able to get some OT hours (which is usually nice for the obvious $$ reasons), and still manage to get out by 8:00PM. I ran home and Tyler and Cera were SOOO excited to go see "boom booms." So, I changed, we headed out and found parking without too much hassle. We went to the main "gathering" point for fire works and found some real estate to camp out in. We did our best to entertain Tyler and Cera before the fireworks started, but they were pretty restless. FINALLY, the fire works started, but we had two problems. One, We managed to find the perfect spot to watch....a tree. The fireworks were directly behind it and we could see pretty much nothing. We tried to move over a bit...but were prohibited by problem number two: Cera and Tyler had decided the "boom booms" weren't so much fun after all, and almost immediately, Tyler grabbed my hand and was saying with great concern "Walk, daddy. Walk!" and pointing away from the park. Cera was sitting on Beth's lap absolutely shaking, apparently too scared to complain much. Carter on the other hand barely showed any signs of even acknowledging the loud noises and lights, except he did glance up to what we could see of them through the leaves. Well....2 minutes into the show we couldn't see we determined we should probably cut our losses and go home. Interestingly enough we noticed once we got back to the car that we had a much better view of the fireworks. Plus we turned on the AC, which made us all a little more comfortable, and we also turned on a local radio station that plays patriotic music during the fireworks. To top it all off...Cera and Tyler seemed to regain some of their enthusiasm for "boom booms" since the "BOOMS" weren't so loud this far away, and inside the car. All in all...it was a nice night out with the family.

Quote of the day

Cera's latest phrase is "I love it!" A couple of days ago Beth was doing something and she asked "Do you love it mommy, Do you love it?" Tyler and Cera both constantly ask now days "What are you doing mommy/daddy, what are you doing hmmmm?"

- Ulavale1

It's a beautiful day!

Well...Here we go, my first official post. Today was/is a beautiful sunny Sunday. We went to church this morning. I'm the Sunday School President and my wife is teaching the 7 year olds...(CTR class I think). I'm sure without the weekly influx of spiritual food I get on Sundays my life would be pretty void. I know that shows a shortcoming me and my family have, but we are trying to get better. Of course we've been trying to get better for about 7 years now. I suppose it would be wise to follow Yoda's wise words here, "Do, or do not, there is no try." But, I guess we all are "trying" in some way, in the various callings and duties of life. For those of you who know me, some of this may be review, so please feel free to skip ahead, but I would like to give some background info here. I was born to a great family in Northern Illinois. I grew up mostly in Illinois, except short stays in Nauvoo Illinois and St. Louis Missouri. I grew up enjoying friends, church, music, movies and sports. I played the drums in school...and unfortunately have had very little time or opportunities to play since getting married. I was in a band in High school that a couple of my good friends and I formed called "When Dogs Collide." We played mostly '90's "grunge." I was also in choir and again, have had very few opportunities to sing except in church on Sundays. I played football in High School. I started playing tightend as a freshman, until the coaches figured out I couldn't catch, and then I moved as a sophomore to a pulling guard. I also played defensive end. I mostly enjoyed being on specialty teams, especially kick off team. I wrestled in Junior High, but unfortunately had to quit in High School because of scheduling difficulties. I participated in track as well, mostly in an effort to try to keep in shape for football. Of all things high school I would have to say football I miss the most, it is also really the only thing that I can think of, when I look back, that I wish I would have done differently. I think I could have applied myself ALOT more. It is still something I struggle with when encountering life's new opportunities, but I felt I wasn't "Blank" enough (fill in the blank with a positive attribute). I wasn't athletic enough, fast enough, smart enough, etc ... etc. I do have to explain it's not that I felt I wasn't talented to some degree in various aspects of life...just not enough to be really good. If that makes sense. Anywho, I digress. After high school I worked for some time at a small town root beer stand and a UPS hub as a package handler for about a year until, in December of 1996 I got a mission call to Samoa. I left home in February of 1997. I spent 2 month in the MTC in Provo UT. then went down to Samoa. The first couple months of my mission were pretty tough for me, as I suppose many missionaries encounter. From not learning the language fast enough, to feeling like I was a baby sitter for a trunky companion, I felt I was not accomplishing what I was sent there to do, although we were "successful", and very much so, according to some's standards. About 3 months after getting to Samoa I was assigned to a new area with a new companion. Elder Teila (Taylor) Falua and I worked together in Siusega, near the Samoan capital of Apia, on the island of Upolu for 3 months together. All told I served in Siuseaga for about 9 months. I loved that area, and that companionship, that was really a turning point of my mission. I learned the language enough to feel I was understood, give lessons and most importantly I learned to enjoy the Samoan spirit of light heartedness and love. I enjoyed all my areas on my mission (all 3 of them) but I think the last 2 (Siusega and Vailuutai) were most enjoyable, not necessarily because of the people, but because of my attitude and my learned aptitude with the language. I loved the food, although I have never been a HUGE fan of sea food, I learned to enjoy it. As crazy as it sounds I even learned to enjoy being drenched in sweat all day long because of the heat and humidity. Mainly because the closest I think I have come to heaven was when, after a long hard day on the paths of my last area, Vailuutai, we'd return to our small 1 room house to clean up and prepare for our dinner appointment, and I would take a nice long cool shower. Now, this was no ordinary shower...let me explain. Close your eyes and picture....hum...never mind...that wont work if your reading...well....just imagine... We lived behind our chapel in a small 1 room house (literally about 12X12 foot room, just enough room for 2 beds and 2 small cubby holes for shirts and clothes. Anywho, again I digress.). We used the chapel restroom for all our toiletry needs except showering. There was a large black tank filled with water continually for times of water shortage outside in back of the chapel. It was partly surrounded by the likes of beautiful flowers of various colors and sizes, coconut trees, etc. It was beautiful. The water would be cool to luke warm because the black lining on the tank would collect enough energy to warm the cold water to just the perfect temperature. We've all seen the picture of the beautiful guy or gal standing in some tropical place under a waterfall....this was that! Anywho...It was THE most relaxing thing I have ever experienced in my life. I'm sure the fact that by that point in my mission I felt I was truly accomplishing what the Lord (and what I) expected of me and the work added to the enjoyment and relaxation after those hard long days of sweat, and sometimes tears. I will always feel somehow, deep down, part Samoan for the rest of my live. I hope and pray I never forget the Spirit I learned to feel, but also that I will never forget the people, and culture I came to know and love! In February of 1999, my father came to Samoa, and we returned home together via Hawaii and Utah. Almost immediately I started dating this cute little chick from my local stake. I knew her sister growing up from stake dances and gatherings, and had met her through her sister before my mission. I suppose my cousin Rachel is partly to blame for our getting together as she encouraged it from the start. Well...that fall we both ended up in Provo UT. She was going to BYU studying elementary education, and I was working various jobs trying to figure out what I wanted to do (I'll let you know if and when I figure that out!). In December of 1999 I proposed to that, now beautiful woman, and we were married in April of 2000. My wife graduated from BYU in 2002 and I had obtained about 30 credits from UVSC. We moved back home and I eventually got a great job doing police dispatch. My wife had also gotten a job at a child care facility and things were going great. In 2004 we had two wonderful miracles enter our lives. Tyler and Cera were born late in 2004, considering we weren't sure if we'd ever be able to have kids...this was indeed a miracle in our eyes.

Well... once the little en's came, Beth quit her job to be a mom. She has been all that I ever wanted and expected a mom and wife to be! She is an example to me in so many ways. I admire and adore her so much. Tyler and Cera have grown so much in the last 2 and 1/2 years. Cera is quite the goof ball and ham. Tyler is extremely understanding and tolerant of his possessive sister. 2005, after the kids were born wasn't such a good year for us. We went to 7 funerals in two years from 2004-2005 including three of our closest loved ones. In January of 2005 My mom's mom passed away... Grandma Drew. In February Beth's Great Grandma June passed away. In December my mom, Rose passed away. It is an understatement to say that we felt overwhelmed with the loss of these great women in our lives. I am so grateful for the gospel in our lives! Without it, a very very difficult time could've become a time from which I would have never felt I could have overcome, nor had the drive to want to overcome. With it, I learned that death is, while very hard to accept sometimes, a VITAL part of life's plan. That we have to be born into this world to gain the experiences that we must have to return to our Heavenly Father, and that without death, the trip home is unachievable. I now look at birth and death in a whole new light. Birth and Death are not merely events in our lives, but I see them as quasi-ordinances. One must be baptised, repent and be faithful to enter the Kingdom of our Father. Aren't Birth and Death also required, in fact with out them, none of the stuff in between would be of value. Well...I have tried to learn from those events in life I didn't understand. One big help in rebounding from these emotional set backs in our lives came in August of 2006. I had just returned from a trip to Samoa (which I will talk more about in a later post) in which I had conducted research on parenting styles and adolescent behaviors in Samoa . To our surprise, we had been told that Beth was pregnant, but later we were told she was losing the baby because the hormone levels were not where they should be. This we felt was yet another blow to our already fragile spirits when, one night, Beth was having major stomach pains. We didn't know what it was, but thought it may be her miscarrying or something. We took her to the hospital and they determined it most likely was gall stones. When it rains it pours. They confirmed the gall stones with an ultrasound, but at 1 am that morning in a small ultrasound room in a small town hospital we learned something else. Beth did have the stones, and they confirmed she was pregnant, but not 5 weeks like they had initially thought....but 5 months...and everything looked great with the baby. In February of 2007 we had Carter a healthy baby boy.

This was only 2 months after I FINALLY finished up my bachelors of Psychology. So...long story short...I've had a blessed and eventful life. I'd had a couple of pretty bad years...but I think we're on the up bound now. Forgive this monstrous post, but hopefully from here on out, it will be more hip and happening and filled up with to date stuff that we all love to hear and gossip about ;-) . I hope that someone will find my ramblings useful and entertaining!

- Ulavale1

June 30, 2007

Hello to all, and welcome to Ulavale1's blog. The real names and places of people in this publication have been changed to protect the innocent, or guilty...which ever is most applicable. I am hoping this blog will serve several functions. Specifically, I hope it will help family and friends keep up with our growing family and our "going ons," as well as help me keep better records of the events of my life and my family's lives. I figure I often have hours of unproductive time at work, when no one needs my skilled life-saving services, that I could use to put down on screen what crazy thoughts fill my head and heart. SO...without further ado...Welcome! (Please note I never claimed to be a journalist, or writer so you read at your own risk, which includes: enduring painfully horrific spelling (although I will attempt to make use of spell check), poor grammar and well as run on sentences, poor punctuation, and lack of any clear, rational thought processes.)